Please do not take this as some angry, hate blog as that is never my intention with Blindfolded. I would rather this blog be used as some sort of insight-haven or rather a crap shoot for meaningful occurrences that happen in every day life. Tonight's activities can be summed up in two words: creepy men.
Why is it that they are more likely to come up to you at a bar than someone who you might actually be interested in speaking to and .....oh my....even possibly going out on a regular date with? What the shit is up with that? And these people aren't just regular creepy. They want to come up and hover over you while you're trying to have a normal conversation with friends. What kind of a first impression is that?
First off - you're being very rude interrupting a good conversation. Secondly, are you kidding me? Why, ON EARTH, would anyone in their right mind want to speak to someone who says (in a creepy, serial killer kind of voice), "I just wanna come over and say hello." And then awkwardly stand there after I politely say hello back and try my best not to say something along the lines of, "Are you kidding me right now, buddy? Do I seem uninterested? Because I am."
Fortunately for these lunatics, I don't have it in me to be rude to people. I'm not sure why, but it's just not one of my talents. My beautiful friend Nicole on the other hand...has and always will tell it like it is. So she says to this guy, "Hey. Could you not touch us or talk to us while we are here? We are trying to have a good time and you're really creeping us out." Gotta love the honesty.
And so I ask...as I always do...why is it that this type of man has no shame when going up to a girl who he knows 100% of the time she is going to either ignore him, try to ignore him or just get up and leave where he is now sitting and guys who know how to behave like normal human beings on a regular basis cannot seem to muster up the balls to communicate with females in a coherent fashion? As if that sentence was coherent.
Just think about that and please get back to me.
Goodnight!
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First of all they have a few drinks in them and it makes them brave enough to approach beautiful women that they would normally not approach while sober. Second, and in their defense, beautiful girls always say that they NEVER get approached b/c they are beautiful so you can't have it both ways, don't approach or approach. Lastly, they can't help their voice or their appearance, unless they are dirty and have bad teeth. So I like your approach, not the other one used. It is not nice to be rude, particularly to "serial killers."
ReplyDeleteNicely said. As usual Blogoholic, you are the voice of reason.
ReplyDeleteAlthough, I avoid this situation all-together and just let the ladies approach me.