A little while back...in the midst of probably another run-in with an appearingly normal guy who turned out to be a douche...I remember going over things over and over in my head. How can he go from wanting to hang out and chat all the time to no response? Was it something I said? Was it something that I did? Did I ask him to hang out with my friends too quickly? You name it - I thought about it.
No matter how often we tell ourselves that we shouldn't be so worried about things. That as long as we're being honest with ourselves everything should be all well and good - We always stray from this thought process. But why? I remember at that same instance that I was questioning all of those things about myself and what I could have done differently - I took a step back and said - Wait a second...what have I been telling myself over the past year? There is no reason why I can't be myself and he can't be himself and we can't just enjoy each other's company. Isn't that what a relationship should be?
"Samson Simpson! I stick by my story! If I wasn't Jamaican...then why would I wear this hat?" Okay sorry - I had to throw that quote in...it seemed like such a good fit.
Anyhow.. I'm gonna go ahead and stick by my original theory that two people can have a very successful relationship without altering their personalities entirely. It seems I have managed to do just that....so far. I remain hopeful and optimistic as always. See that...nothing's changed yet.
Best of luck to the rest of you. I hope you're happy just the way you are.
Gnight.
Subscribe to:
Post Comments (Atom)
No comments:
Post a Comment