Does it get Easier?

As you've all probably gathered at this point, I have been enjoying the single life for almost exactly a year at this point and I honestly cannot say that it hasn't been the greatest year of my life. I've been able to go out and do what I want to do, hang out with whoever the hell I feel like and finally call all of the shots. Awesome.

There's just one thing that's missing and that would be any form of casual dating and/or 'relations.' I will continue to refer to this as 'relations' for the entirety of this post simply because I'm finding it funny...oh and then there's the fact that my mother and her work friends read this on occasion and I don't want to be inappropriate.

While I say that I've enjoyed single life to the fullest, it would have been nice to get some sort of 'dating' experience being that I have jumped from one relationship to another throughout my life and I was looking to get away from that all together. But let me tell you something...just dating is so much easier said than done.

In your opinion, do guys always think that girls want more than just 'relations?' Is it possible that there are actually girls out there that just enjoy hanging out and if the occasional 'relations' make their way into the equation...bonus? I get the sense that that answer is no and I don't understand. And even if you take the time to repeatedly say that you are not interested in the relationship aspect but would be perfectly fine with just 'relations,' that doesn't even make things easier. It's almost like it creates all of these other questions and in the end everyone is left to dry up like a siv.

Bottom line here...let's all just relax and accept the fact that not everyone around the age of 25-30 is interested in getting married tomorrow. Some people just like to hang out and if the occasion 'relations' takes place...super. If not...that's fine too. Enough with the questions and the over-thinking. It's never well-received.

Happy end of the Weekend.